Researchers have hypothesized that children will respond positively or negatively to a given environment, based on the praise or punishment received. Many of us would call this observational learning. Often, people are reinforced or punished for modeling the behavior of others. For adolescents, they quickly learn the acceptable norms for their behavior by observing peers around them. The classroom quickly because a microcosm for society among this age group. Researchers have suggested that if an adolescent female is criticized for speaking out in a classroom, she will not speak out again. Once other female students observe this negative interaction with the teacher, they, too, will not speak out. The lines of division between what is acceptable for males and females become increasingly apparent and females begin to see dissimilar treatment of boys and girls in the classroom. Many females can retreat and became docile or almost invisible in a classroom setting. Therefor, it’s important for parents to have open conversations with their daughters about school. Asking “how was school today?” may not be enough. Parents may need to dig a little deeper.
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Hi Mom and Dad! This section is for you. I’ll post useful advise and helpful tips for understanding what your teen is going through.
What is Self-Concept?
Mom and Dad,
This view differs from self-esteem, and relates to how your child sees herself in the context
of the world. When referring to self-concept, the question “Who am I?” is important.
The foundation of self-concept occurs in infancy with the strong relationship of mother and
child. The formation of age appropriate self-concept is necessary in planting the seeds
for self-esteem development. Therefore, positive self-esteem is built upon accurate
and age appropriate self-concept. So everyone once in a while encourage your child to ask herself,
“Who am I?” It may be interesting to see what she says.
What is Low Self-Esteem?
Low self-esteem can have many unattractive faces and it can cause you to make bad decisions. Have you ever let a friend treat you badly, or said negative things about yourself inside your head? Have you lain around all day instead of choosing to meet up with friends or spending some time outside?
Don’t worry! There is a silver lining! Low self-esteem can change into positive self-esteem. It doesn’t always have to be low; you have the power to change it. Remember—You control it, it doesn’t control you!
Dr Carol 