The top ten stressors for the average teenage girl come in many forms. Some may surprise you and some may not, but what they all have in common is a damaging effect on teen self-esteem.
Boys/relationships–Wanting a boy or girl to like her, but not necessarily understanding how to go about it a healthy or positive way. Romanticizing the concept of a relationship.
Friends— Wanting to be popular and having a group of friends, yet still worrying about being fully accepted by them. Fitting in and knowing how to conform, but wondering about individuality.
Gossip— Worrying about being judged by others, but at the same time judging them. Worrying about rumors that may or may not be true & people cutting you down.
Media Beauty Ideals— Scanning magazines and websites, teens take cues from what the media considers beautiful. This in turn causes self hate if they don’t meet those physical ideals set by society.
Parents— Expectations put upon them by their parents, having a poor relationship with one or both of their parents and/or being compared to a sibling.
Peer pressure — Wanting to be part of the group, but not wanting to drink, do drugs, shoplift or have unwanted sexual encounters to be accepted.
Perfectionism/self-image— Setting unrealistic expectations for themselves. Unsure of how others actually see them and of how they want to be seen in relation to school, culture and society. Always questioning who they are and striving to be “perfect.”
School— Getting good grades and getting into the college of her choice, wondering if she’s smart enough, and comparing her grades to her friends.