Adolescent Females and the Classroom Experience

Researchers have hypothesized that children will respond positively or negatively to a given environment, based on the praise or punishment received. Many of us would call this observational learning.  Often, people are reinforced or punished for modeling the behavior of others.  For adolescents, they quickly learn the acceptable norms for their behavior by observing peers around them. The classroom quickly because a microcosm for society among this age group. Researchers have suggested that if an adolescent female is criticized for speaking out in a classroom, she will not speak out again.  Once other female students observe this negative interaction with the teacher, they, too, will not speak out. The lines of division between what is acceptable for males and females become increasingly apparent and females begin to see dissimilar treatment of boys and girls in the classroom.  Many females can retreat and became docile or almost invisible in a classroom setting. Therefor, it’s important for parents to have open conversations with their daughters about school.  Asking “how was school today?” may not be enough.  Parents may need to dig a little deeper.

Quiz for Teens

Moral Dilemma

What would you do?

Ok- you are at school waiting for your best friend and she’s late. Finally, she shows up just as the bell is ringing, and says that she dropped something and has to go back.  You say, “Ok, I’ll meet you in home room”, but she says “NO, wait for me” and runs off.  Do you:

A) Wait for your friend and you both walk in late and get in trouble

B) Take off for home room and hope your friend won’t be too mad later

C) Pretend you didn’t hear her, go to home room and try to blow off the situation

Post your answers

What is Low Self-Esteem?

Low self-esteem can have many unattractive faces and it can cause you to make bad decisions.  Have you ever let a friend treat you badly, or said negative things about yourself inside your head?  Have you lain around all day instead of choosing to meet up with friends or spending some time outside?

Don’t worry!  There is a silver lining! Low self-esteem can change into positive self-esteem.  It doesn’t always have to be low; you have the power to change it. Remember—You control it, it doesn’t control you!